Speech by The Duchess of Cambridge at the Best Beginnings “Out of the Blue” Film Series Launch
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Before I begin, I know that you’d all want to join me in sending our thoughts and prayers to all those sadly affected by yesterday’s terrible attack in Westminster. We will be thinking of all the families, as we discuss the important issues we’re here to talk about.文章源自英文巴士-https://www.en84.com/2370.html
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I would like to thank Best Beginnings for inviting me here to introduce the ‘Out of the Blue’ series. This collection of films highlights how vital it is to be open about our mental health especially in the early years of parenthood.文章源自英文巴士-https://www.en84.com/2370.html
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Personally, becoming a mother has been such a rewarding and wonderful experience. However, at times, it’s also been a huge challenge – even for me who has support at home that most mothers do not.文章源自英文巴士-https://www.en84.com/2370.html
Nothing can really prepare you for you the sheer overwhelming experience of what it means to become a mother. It is full of complex emotions of joy, exhaustion, love, and worry, all mixed together. Your fundamental identity changes overnight. You go from thinking of yourself as primarily an individual to suddenly being a mother, first and foremost.
And yet, there is no rule book, no right or wrong – you just have to make it up and do the very best you can to care for your family. For many mothers, myself included, this can, at times, lead to a lack of confidence and feelings of ignorance.
Sadly, for some mothers, this experience could be made so much harder due to challenges with their own mental health. Two in ten women will suffer mental health issues that can occur during pregnancy and in the year after birth, often clouding their moments of joy with a real sense of darkness and isolation. Many of these women also suffer in silence, overwhelmed by negative feelings, but also afraid to admit to the struggles they might be facing due to the fear or shame of what others might think if they “are not coping”.
Some of this fear is about the pressure to be a perfect parent, pretending we’re all coping perfectly and loving every minute of it. It is right to talk about motherhood as a wonderful thing, but we also need to talk about its stresses and strains. It’s ok not to find it easy. And asking for help should not be seen as a sign of weakness.
If any of us caught a fever during pregnancy, we would seek advice and support from a doctor. Getting help with our mental health is no different – our children need us to look after ourselves and get the support we need.
Conversations are crucial – crucial for mental wellbeing, and they should be part of everyday family life. Talking about a problem with a friend or another trusted person can be the beginning of getting better.
This week, as we look forward to Mother’s Day, I would love to see everyone celebrate and value the fundamental importance that mothers play in family life.
Mothers take on an overwhelming responsibility of caring for their families. Their role is vital in providing unconditional love, care, and support at home, particularly in the early years of a child’s development. We, therefore, should do everything we can to support and value their hard work.
The work of Best Beginnings is vital. By providing tools and resources to help parents establish their own confidence and their own self-awareness, Best Beginnings enables mothers and fathers to do the best they can for their families.
The ‘Out of the Blue’ films you are about to see are also an amazing example to all parents, that starting conversations and asking for support is a real source of strength. They have been created with real parents, talking honestly and openly about their own experiences of parenthood.
I am now delighted to introduce two brave parents who have contributed to these films, Jessica and John Warne.
Thank you.
